Relationship. Let's talk about this issue.
I have this male friend.. (in fact i have heard of many similiar stories)
He's shy and like kanasai.
He said: no money no honey. Got money lotsa honey. relationship = responsibility. girlfriend = endless troublesome. and he has NEVER dated.
I say: you're selfish. First off, not everyone (girls) loves money, i mean your money or lotsa money, as long as not super poor then can d right? It depends WHERE you got to know the girls, WHO are the girls and WHAT types the girls are. If you're driving proton cars and want to date a 5series cars, then what do you think? highly maintenance stuff. No good if you have everything but Money. So, get my point?
He said: if it's not going to work out, either she or me gonna suffered, depressed.
Better don't hurt her feelings or break her hearts into pieces!
I say: If the love is genuine, it won't break. as simple as that.
He protested you won't know the future, so better not start it at all. Don't do things that you're not 100% sure/confirm. Better focus on works=money.
I say: DIAO. I never see such a coward and selfish man before. How sure you'll get highly paid job after you're degree? How sure you'll ended up breaking her hearts OR you're afraid yours would be broken? How sure you'll live tomorrow? How sure is 100% sure? Tell me. If everything so sure, I go buy 4D lor.
Only cowards gives excuses and runaway from your own feelings.
Only selfish claims it's for her own good (not to start a relationship) to sound unselfish.
Sigh, at the end of the day, who suffers?